The spate of suicides by young medical & engineering aspirants is extremely heart-wrenching, to say the least. As father of a young lad in early twenties, I can relate closely to this.
The authorities in Kota have taken steps - some outright absurd and lacking imagination & sensitivity, others are like applying band-aid to a gunshot wound.
We need to find out the root causes and the path that has led us to this murky desolate situation.
Over a million students write JEE every year and you have to be in 99.5 percentile to have any hope of getting into a really good engineering institute, because they are so few!! NEET, the entrance exam for MBBS is even harder.
And in this country, which has been home to world's greatest philosophers, leaders, teachers and home to four great religions (the oldest one included), every parent wants their kids to be doctors or engineers. As if there is no life beyond these two professions. Parents will accept their kids as a mediocre engineer than a fantastic teacher or a courageous soldier or a top notch lawyer. Why blame the students? Parents are first and foremost to be held accountable.
Next is the absurd level of difficulty of the questions in JEE. I am not saying at all that we should go back to board marks or do away with meritocracy. But in trying to defeat coaching angle in selection process, we kept on increasing the difficulty level of questions to a level where it has become reductio ad absurdum!!
The questions are so tough that even brilliant students stand no chance of getting through without help from professional coaching institutes. So in order to limit their influence, we have made the coaching institutes all-powerful.
And the coaching institutes have no agenda except to get as many students through the JEE/NEET as they can, hence they focus only on extraordinary students, and the mere mortals fall behind. They are not only under pressure to get into a better batch, they also have to carry the burden of their parents and extended families and the fact that many families send their kids to these coaching institutes while making huge sacrifices in order to pay the hefty tuition fees.
And remember, these are 15-18 year old kids. Most of them have never stayed alone and prone to buckle under duress. Rather than being their pillars of support, parents are just rushing them out to the trenches.
We need to stop stealing their adolescence and youth. Let them be free of sense of being trapped in a trench with no hope. Let them bask in their youth. There is life beyond engineering and medical colleges. Homi Bhabha was not an engineer, nor was Gandhi a doctor. Neither are Harish Salve, Narendra Modi, Sachin Tebdulkar or Field Marshall Manekshaw. And they have all made their families and their nations proud.
Rather than installing spring-fans and keeping weekly tests in abeyance, let us work to educate parents to moderate their expectations, look at other facets of life and career; and make the entrance exams more comprehensive but reasonably tough, rather than short but extremely tough so that coaching centres become more important than premier institutes themselves.
Indian mind is one of the best, and our youth are extra ordinary. Let's give them chance to bloom and make India proud.